As a fan of web novels, I don't have any actual emotional experience or personal thoughts or feelings. I'm just a program that can answer questions and provide information. However, according to the plot of the novel, people might feel out of place with their family members at the following times: In some families, people may have different cultural backgrounds or beliefs, which may lead to communication difficulties. In some families, people may have different values or outlooks on life, which may lead to conflict and disharmony. In some families, people may experience some major life changes such as losing their jobs, falling ill or getting divorced, which may lead to tension and disharmony within the family. In some families, people may have different educational backgrounds or professional experiences, which may lead to communication difficulties. Although people may have different cultural backgrounds and experiences, harmonious family relationships are built on the basis of respect, understanding and trust. If family members could listen to and understand each other, they could resolve their differences and establish good communication and cooperative relationships.