I've worked very hard and paid a lot, but I can't get the recognition of others, and no one understands me. I always feel that I'm doing it for myself.
Don't blame yourself too much when you encounter similar problems. In novels, this kind of situation is often called self-actualization anxiety, which is a very common psychological phenomenon. When we work hard to do something and put in a lot of time and energy but don't get the recognition and appreciation of the people around us, it's easy to develop self-actualization anxiety. This feeling will make us feel that our value and ability are not fully reflected, thus affecting our confidence and enthusiasm. However, we should realize that everyone has their own value and advantages, but sometimes we don't realize it or haven't been fully exploited. Even if we don't get the approval of the people around us, we should believe in ourselves and believe that our efforts and contributions are valuable. In addition, we can try to communicate with the people around us to seek their support and understanding. Maybe they didn't notice our efforts, or maybe they'd rather see the results than the efforts. Through communication and understanding, we can better connect with others and relieve our self-actualization anxiety. Finally, we should maintain a positive attitude and believe in our ability and value. No matter what we do, we should strive to pursue our goals and dreams and believe that we will eventually get the results we want.
I've read a lot of novels and want to write them myself, but I can't get rid of other people's ideas. I feel like I'm copying others 'ideas.
Writing a novel requires inspiration and ideas. You can refer to the following suggestions and try to improve your ideas: 1. Imagine a unique story world with its own personality and characteristics. 2. Decide on the theme and plot of the story and come up with a fascinating storyline. 3. Create unique characters, give them personality and motivation, and let readers resonate with them. Use appropriate narrative techniques such as dialogue, description, and action scenes to make the story more interesting. 5. Make sure the story is logical and coherent to avoid contradictions or unreasonable plots. Read and write more to improve your writing skills and creativity. It was not advisable to plagiarize other people's stories. Not only would it destroy one's creativity, but it would also make the readers hate the work. I suggest reading more excellent novels to learn their writing skills and experience and create a unique work through your own thinking and creation.
Why do I always treat the characters in the novel as myself? Can't tell which one is me? I'm very confused!
Perhaps it's because when you read novels, you often see the characters in the novels as yourself, causing you to confuse the real world with the fictional world. This was a common illusion known as the "novel myth" or "novel illusion". When you see the characters in the novel as yourself, your actions and thoughts may be influenced by them. This can cause you to feel confused and confused in real life. To overcome this illusion, you need to realize that novels are fictional. The characters and plots are all created by the author's imagination. Although you can find fun and inspiration in novels, you must remember that novels are only fictional stories and cannot represent real life. He tried to focus on the plot and the characters in the novel instead of seeing the characters in the novel as real people. This will help you distinguish between reality and fiction, and avoid confusing and confusing the characters in the novel as yourself.
I'm a third-year high school student. I type and write novels on my phone every day, but I don't get much recognition online. I've worked hard for three years.
Writing online novels was a challenging process that required a lot of effort and time to succeed. Although you may have been working hard for three years, you still need to constantly improve your writing skills and creativity to attract more readers and recognition. Here are some suggestions that might be useful: 1. Read more web novels to understand different writing styles and storylines. Try to learn the writing skills of other authors. 2. Build your own writing style and worldview. Gather as much inspiration as possible to maintain continuity and cohesiveness in the writing process. 3. Try to communicate and cooperate with other authors to learn their writing skills and experiences and learn from each other. Pay more attention to readers 'feedback and comments, try to understand their thoughts and opinions, and make corresponding adjustments and improvements. 5. Constantly improve your writing speed and efficiency to reduce time waste and complete your work faster. The most important thing is not to give up on writing and exploring. Believe in your own ability and value, and believe that readers will recognize your efforts and works.
I'm a high school student, and I've written a few novels myself. Where can I get paid to submit my articles?
Writing a novel was an interesting thing. It could train one's writing skills and creativity. If you want to submit a novel that can be paid for, you can try submitting it on an online platform or a publishing house. Online platforms such as Qidian Chinese Network, Xiaoxiang Academy, and other publishing houses such as fantasy, science fiction, romance, and other categories. Before submitting the novel, one had to prepare the outline, body, and ending of the novel and submit the complete work. He also had to submit the word count requirement for the main body of the work, as well as the payment method and address for the author's fee. During the submission process, you need to carefully read the submission guide of the submission platform and submit the work according to the requirements. If the work was selected, it would also need to pay the royalties and publish and distribute it according to the requirements of the publishing house. Writing a novel was an interesting thing. If you had good creativity and writing skills, you could try submitting a novel and get paid.
I have a very serious psychological problem. I always feel that others don't like me. The more I feel this way, the more I realize that they really don't like to be with me.
This condition is often referred to as "self-doubt" or "self-denial." Emotions are an unhealthy mental state that can lead to anxiety, depression, and other psychological problems. To solve this problem, he needed to seriously think about why he had this feeling and whether it was real. You can try the following methods to ease this emotion: Accept yourself: realize that everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. No one is perfect. Accept your own shortcomings and work hard to improve yourself so that you can get along better with others. 2. Build self-confidence: You can build self-confidence by increasing your self-worth and self-confidence. You can try to learn new skills, try new things, and communicate with others to increase your sense of self-worth. improve interpersonal relationships: You can improve interpersonal relationships by actively participating in social activities, understanding other people's thoughts and feelings, and learning to communicate. 4. Seek professional help: If self-doubt seriously affects your life and work, you can seek the help of a professional psychiatrist. They can provide effective psychological treatment and support.
I feel so lost ~~ I can't find a goal in life, I can't find motivation, I'm very lazy, I don't like to communicate with others, I'm always in my own world.
If you encounter a situation where your life goals are lost, you can refer to the following suggestions: 1. Exploring your interests and hobbies. Knowing what you really like might lead you to discover that you have a special talent and passion for certain fields and thus find your own life goal. Set short and long term goals. Breaking down your goals into small, doable steps and setting a deadline for each goal will help you better control your progress and work hard to achieve your goals. 3. Cultivate your social skills. Communicating with others could not only expand the social circle, but also better understand the thoughts and needs of others, so as to find like-minded people to achieve their life goals together. 4. Seek help and support from others. Don't be afraid to seek help and support from others. They may provide new ideas and suggestions to help you better face the confusion of life goals. Embrace change and challenge. There are always changes and challenges in life, and these challenges can help us grow and improve, find our own direction. So don't be afraid to face the challenges and learn from them.
I'm a newbie writer. Although I try very hard to control myself when I write a novel, I always feel like I've written a running account every time I read it. How do I break it?
Writing a novel was a challenging process for novices. Here are some suggestions that might be useful to help overcome this problem: 1. Set a writing goal for yourself: To overcome the problem of a journal, you need to set a specific writing goal, such as how many words to write per day or how many chapters to write per week. This would help him maintain his motivation and help him control his writing progress. Reading and editing multiple times: Reading and editing multiple times is an important way to improve the quality of a novel. In the process of writing, you can review and revise your previous content many times to ensure that the plot and character development are logical and satisfactory to the readers. 3. Create interesting plots and characters: The plot and characters are the soul of the novel. During the writing process, you can try to create interesting plots and characters to attract the readers 'attention and make them resonate with the story. Use writing skills: Some writing skills such as suspense, conflict, and rhythm can help control the development of the story and enhance the appeal of the novel. You can learn and apply these skills in the process of writing to improve your writing. Seeking feedback and suggestions: Seeking their feedback and suggestions with others can help you better understand the needs and preferences of readers and improve your writing skills. I hope these suggestions will be helpful. I wish you a further and further journey on the road of writing!
I don't like to tell others what I do, nor do I like others to ask me what I'm doing. I don't want others to know my background or bits and pieces! I love to press myself
It's a rather hidden personality trait known as the occult or the covert. Such people usually attached great importance to their privacy and were unwilling to share their lives and experiences. They also did not want others to interfere too much in their lives and work. In a novel, this trait could create a unique and mysterious character image that would arouse the readers 'interest and resonance. This character could move freely in his own world without being disturbed or restricted by the outside world, giving people a sense of independence, confidence, and security. However, the hidden ones would also face some challenges. If they were unwilling to share their lives and experiences, they might feel lonely and helpless. In addition, they might also miss some opportunities and resources because they were unwilling to disclose their information, because others might not be able to understand their background and background information. In the novel, the author could explore the inner world and values of the hidden characters by portraying them, so that the readers could resonate with the characters and understand whether their lifestyle was suitable for them. At the same time, the author could also lead the readers to think and discuss the challenges faced by the hidden people and how to deal with these challenges to trigger the readers to think and discuss personal privacy and interpersonal relationships.
Don't read novels while listening to music. You can't get it in. I've seen others do this before. I really can't do it. I'm always distracted.
Listening to music while reading a novel was indeed a distracting act that would easily blur the plot and character image of the novel, affecting the reading experience. Therefore, it is recommended that you don't listen to music or choose some background music that is not too distracting, such as light music. At the same time, you can also choose some focused reading apps such as "Reading" or "Zhimi Reading". These apps provide reading mode and focus mode to better focus and improve reading efficiency. Reading is an activity that requires patience and concentration. Through the above techniques, you can better enjoy reading and improve your reading efficiency.
Why can't I always insist on doing one thing?
There were many reasons why one could not persist in doing something. Some of them might include: A lack of motivation or interest. If this thing doesn't arouse enough interest or motivation, it might be difficult for you to persist. lack confidence or courage. If you don't have enough confidence in yourself to complete the task or are afraid of failure, then you may find it difficult to persevere. 3. meet with difficulties or setbacks. If you encounter difficulties or setbacks in the implementation process, you may begin to doubt your ability and give up. 4. Lacking time management skills. If you can't manage your time properly, you might find that you don't have enough time to complete the task and give up. Lacking perseverance or determination. If you don't have the determination to complete the task, you might give up easily when you encounter difficulties. To overcome these problems, one needed to find the cause and take corresponding measures. For example, increase motivation and interest, increase confidence and courage, learn to solve difficulties and setbacks, learn to arrange time reasonably, strengthen perseverance and determination.