The lines of Qian Xiaoyang in " Who's in charge of my youth " were as follows: Life is like a mirror. If you smile at her, she will smile at you. Destiny is in your own hands, not in the hands of others. Love is not possession but appreciation. Believe in yourself and believe in the future to do better. Courage isn't about not feeling fear, it's about continuing to do things even when you feel fear. Youth should be used to struggle, not to waste. Chances are always reserved for those who are prepared. 8. Don't be afraid of failure, just give up. Do what you like to do and don't be influenced by other people's opinions. Without bread, love will also become a desolate desert.