I hope you can finish reading it. My parents have never left the village. They have to make a big fuss over a small matter. Our side works

I hope you can finish reading it. My parents have never left the village. They have to make a big fuss over a small matter. When I was very young, my dad told me that studying was useless and asked me to come out to work earlier. Another reason was that I had to stay on campus when I went to university. They didn't want me to leave them. In order to prevent me from going out, they always told me that you were useless and couldn't do anything, so you had to stay by our side. So I went to work in the factory very early. They didn't think it was enough to live under their eyes every day. They didn't allow me to go out after work every day, so I had very few friends. It wasn't easy for me to go out shopping with my friends. They called me to go home within ten minutes. If I didn't reply, they would call me every five minutes until I got home. When I got home, they would scold me again. Just like that, my friend said that she wanted to hang out with me. Your parents seem to think that I've led you astray and are urging you to come home. It's better for us not to hang out together in the future. Just like that, I started being an otaku. After that, I found my current husband. My husband's family bought a house in the city and I had to live with him. My parents said that after I went, they didn't sleep for two months. However, my husband found a job in the city with a stable income. I also gave birth to a baby and couldn't go back to the countryside. Later, I also found a job in the city. Just like that, my mom called me at least 20 times a day. It's not an exaggeration at all, and it's just to chat. When I was at work, I also had a lot of calls a day. Sometimes, when there was nothing to talk about, she wouldn't hang up even if the two of them didn't talk. I went back to visit them every week. Before I went, I called them first. When they knew, they called to ask how I came. Another call asked how many people came, and another call asked what to eat. Another call to ask if it was convenient for him to come, another call to say that it was fine if he didn't need to come, and another call to ask if he was coming. My husband didn't know whether to laugh or cry. Many things are like this. One time, I accidentally knocked over the vegetable oil in the car while I was cleaning it. She called me and told me about it. She was so anxious that she asked why you knocked it over. Did your husband say that you were very stupid? How did he scold you? Did he say that you couldn't even do this kind of thing well? Did he scold you? After hanging up, he called again and asked if he could clean it up. How did he clean it up? I just brushed it off. The next morning, he called again and said,"Why don't I buy you another bottle?" After that, he called again and said,"Be careful in the future. Why are you so careless?" My colleagues at work looked at me and felt embarrassed. This was actually a small matter. The oil was spilled. The car would be fine after cleaning it. She felt that it was a big deal. It was like this every day. I felt tired. Moreover, my child had to report to her what clothes he wore every day. If he didn't wear the clothes she bought, he would be angry. The problem was that my mother-in-law was taking care of the child now. How could she wear the clothes she bought every day? I even had to tell her clearly what kind of braids she was wearing (it was a girl). I also had to tell her clearly what the child told us when she came home from school. If I didn't make it clear, she would keep asking. I felt so tired. I didn't know if your parents were the same. I felt that I didn't have enough time to deal with her calls every day. Or is there something wrong with me? I didn't dare to resist them because I felt that it was too unfilial. Moreover, my tone was a little more serious when my mother said that I was no longer her daughter and that I should just be someone else's daughter. I know that they are doing this for my own good. I really know that they can't bear to part with me, but I really feel tired!

Answer 1

The schedule was tight, so his parents never had the chance to work or travel outside. They had been helping to take care of the farmland and housework at home. Although I am very curious about the outside world, my parents have always warned me that it is very dangerous outside and I should not take risks easily.

I understand their concerns. In our small village, people usually live a simple and comfortable life. The outside world was full of danger and challenges. It was difficult for people to withstand such pressure. So my parents always told me not to take risks, not to try new things, and to be conservative.

Although my parents 'words made me feel at ease, I still wanted to know what the outside world was like. I began to sneak out of the house to explore this world.

I came to the city and saw tall buildings, streets, crowds, and all kinds of things. I was very excited, but at the same time, I felt a little scared. I started to try to walk on the street and communicate with other people to understand their lives and culture.

I soon realized that this world was completely different from what I saw at home. It was full of opportunities and challenges, but many people also faced poverty, loneliness and despair. I began to understand that my parents 'words were not groundless. Their worries were reasonable.

Although my parents stayed at home, their thoughts and actions changed my view of the world. I began to cherish the people and things around me more, and I was more eager to embrace this world. I know that this world is full of challenges and opportunities. I have to work hard to have my own life and future.