The man said to the woman: If you are in full bloom, what does the breeze mean?
This sentence came from Li Qingzhao, a poet of the Tang Dynasty, who wrote the poem,"Like a Dream": I often remember that I was drunk at dusk in the stream pavilion and didn't know how to return. At night I returned to my boat and strayed into the depths of lotus flowers. Fighting to cross, fighting to cross, startled a pool of gulls and egrets. " If you are in full bloom, the breeze will come." It was a metaphor that meant that as long as a person worked hard and pursued his own goals, he would attract good luck and outstanding talents, just like how a flower in full bloom would attract butterflies and bees. This saying was often used to encourage women to improve themselves and work hard. It implied that as long as women were good enough, they would naturally meet better men and better partners.