Was it normal for him to search for information about bachelors in the village all day long and attempt to marry an old bachelor he had never met before?

She was a woman in her fifties or sixties. Her husband had passed away two to three years ago. Now, she was living with her daughter and son-in-law. She did not need to do any housework at home. No one treated her badly. Why did she spend all her time searching for information about the bachelor village in the ravine and still want to marry into a remote poor ravine? I don't understand what she's thinking. Her family treats her so well. They only ask her to be happy and protect her body. Why do they have such thoughts all day long? If she really wanted to find a partner, her family was not completely against it. However, the conditions had to be equal and there had to be a foundation of feelings! Why did she want to find those uncles on the Internet who she didn't know or have seen? Just based on the fact that she didn't know if they were real or not, they were unmarried and looked especially scary. An uncle who had to work in the fields to survive at the age of 60 or 70. What kind of thinking is this? It's useless to dissuade her at home!

Answer 1

This kind of behavior was not normal. Searching for information about bachelors in the village of bachelors in the ravine, attempting to marry an old bachelor whom they did not know or have never seen before may be due to personal feelings or family reasons, but such behavior could not be considered a normal marriage behavior. This kind of thinking may be due to false expectations or blind pursuit of marriage, but this kind of behavior may cause unnecessary harm and pain, and it also violates social ethics and legal norms.

On the contrary, we should respect everyone's freedom and rights, respect the wishes and choices of others, and seek healthier and more legal ways to realize our feelings and goals.