Marriage was a grave where the person inside wanted to come out and the person outside wanted to go in. This was a famous argument in Fortress Besieged that expressed the nature and attraction of marriage. In this story, the marriage between the protagonist Fang Hongjian and his wife Zhao Hsin-mei was described as a besieged city. The people inside the city longed to escape from the besieged city, while the people outside wanted to rush into the besieged city. This metaphor vividly expressed the oppression and restraint of marriage and the fragility and contradiction of love.
This sentence came from a novel called Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu. This novel was a novel that described modern Chinese marriage and social reality. It was hailed as a classic of modern Chinese literature.
"Marriage is the grave of love." This sentence came from the book Fortress Besieged, which was written by Qian Zhongshu to describe the pain and predicament in marriage. This sentence was widely spread and interpreted in the novel, and it became one of the views of many readers on marriage and love.
In some novels, there were often touching sentences that made people want to cry after hearing them. For example: - My heart is dead, but there is still an immortal bird in my heart, it has been flying in my heart. - He had lost his mother, but he had also lost the woman he loved the most. - I've lost all my family, but I have my most loyal friends. - I once thought that I had reached the end of my life, but I was wrong. I still have a long way to go. - Although he had lost everything, he still had a forgiving heart. These sentences contained deep emotions and life philosophy that made people feel very touching after listening to them.
Fortress Besieged was a modern Chinese story about the love story between Fang Hongjian and Sun Roujia, as well as his confusion and predicament in the siege. At the end of the story, Fang Hongjian and Sun Roujia finally got together, but their happiness didn't last long. For various reasons, Fang Hongjian finally gave up his ideals and love and chose to leave the city and return to the countryside. Outside the siege, Fang Hongjian felt a deep sense of loneliness and loss. He regretted his decision, but there was no turning back. Sun Roujia also felt pain and unease because of Fang Hongjian's departure. She tried to redeem Fang Hongjian, but in the end, she couldn't redeem his choice. At the end of the story, Fang Hongjian, who was besieged, and Sun Roujia, who was outside, both fell into deep thought and loss. They realize that life is like a siege, full of restrictions and contradictions inside and outside, but they also understand that only by facing and accepting these restrictions can they truly understand the meaning and value of life.
The following are all sentences about love that make people want to cry: I love you, it has nothing to do with right or wrong, just that we can't be together. I gave everything for you, but you only treated me as a passerby. I've been thinking about what my life would be like if I hadn't met you. Now I know that if I hadn't met you, I wouldn't have grown up, I wouldn't have become strong, and I wouldn't have known how to cherish. Meeting you is the fortune of my life. Losing you is the regret of my life. I've been looking for you but I can't find you. Until one day, I realized that I was no longer looking for you, but was beginning to lose you. Every time I see you, my heart feels like it's being hammered. I don't know what to do. I want to tell you that you are the only one in my heart. But I don't want to tell you that I can't be with you. I used to think that love could make me forget everything. But now I know that love will only make me stronger. I won't cry because of you, I will only grow because of you. I keep thinking about what I would do if we could still be together. Now I know I'll always be with you no matter what you do. I will always love you no matter how bad you are. I used to think that time could heal everything. But now I know that time will only make you more miserable. If you need me, I'll always be by your side. Every time I see you, my heart beats. I will cheer for you and cry for you. I will thank God for letting me meet you, I will cherish you no matter what you do. I will love you forever.
Maybe it's because they feel comfortable at home or are too tired to face the outside world.
This quote comes from the British book The Body: A Guide for Occupants, which originally reads,"A house is not a castle; it's a home And a home is not a happy place; it's a place where one's family is." The meaning of this sentence was that a house was not a castle or a place of happiness. On the contrary, home was a place where people felt warm, safe, and a sense of belonging, while marriage was a process that allowed people to establish close relationships with their families. Although this sentence was used as a humorous or ironic expression in the novel, it did express the importance and stability of marriage to love. Marriage could deepen the feelings and trust between two people, making their relationship more stable and intimate, thus providing better protection and continuous development for love. Therefore, although the phrase " marriage is the grave of love " may be interpreted as a negative point of view in some cases, it also expressed that marriage can provide long-term security and a stable relationship for love.
In Fortress Besieged, Fang Hong-chien belonged to the inside of the city, while Su Wen-wan and Sun Rou-jia belonged to the outside.
Fortress Besieged was originally written in Chinese.
This statement was not completely correct. Marriage is not necessarily the grave of love, but it can be another stage of development for love. People may experience many challenges and difficulties in marriage, but they can still maintain love and intimacy. In some cases, marriage could become the graveyard of love because it could lead to the gradual alienation of love and eventually turn into kinship. This situation might occur when both parties in the marriage no longer pursue romantic love and instead focus more on family and practicality. But marriage is not the only way to express love. People can also express love through other ways such as love letters, text messages, phone calls, dates, etc. No matter whether marriage was established or not, the nature of love would not change. True love was eternal.