Why do I always feel that the people around me are so fake? They only smile at you so obsequiously when it's about benefits. When she didn't need it, she was like a stranger or even an enemy.

2024-09-05 00:33

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2024-09-05 02:45

This was a very common psychological phenomenon called the " Stakeholder Effect." When we interact with others, we tend to pay attention to those who are related to our own interests, and we will show better attitudes and behaviors to them. This is because humans are born with the instinct to protect themselves. When we interact with others, we hope that they will have a positive impact on us to ensure that our interests are protected. However, we may show indifference or unfriendliness to those who are not related to our interests. This is because our self-esteem and sense of self-identity will be hit and feel that we are not valued or not paid attention to. In this situation, we may feel that we have been neglected and thus feel lost and dissatisfied. Therefore, we should realize that not everyone is related to our interests, and we need to learn to put aside prejudice and prejudice and look at the people around us with a broader and inclusive attitude. At the same time, we also need to learn to take the initiative to interact with people we don't like. This can help us build more connections and resources to better achieve our goals.

Why do I always feel that people are so hypocritical and don't get along well with the people around them? She really hated some people.

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2024-09-20 15:59

Humans were complicated. Everyone had their own thoughts, emotions, and actions. Some people may show a hypocritical side and hide their true thoughts and feelings to avoid being hurt or causing conflict. This made it even more difficult to get along with others. At the same time, hating someone could also be caused by personal feelings and experiences. Sometimes we feel uncomfortable or even annoyed because of someone's behavior, words, or attitude. This could be because we've been hurt in our past or because we're prejudiced or dissatisfied with someone. To improve your relationship with the people around you, you can try to understand their thoughts and feelings and build common ground and trust with them. You can also try to express your feelings and opinions, but you must pay attention to the way and attitude to avoid hurting others. The most important thing was to maintain an open and tolerant attitude and respect everyone's differences and ideas. Only then could they truly establish good interpersonal relationships.

I used to chase a girl. She said she didn't like me, so I gave up. I have a girlfriend recently, and she knows about it. Why did you treat me so badly?

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2024-09-15 21:25

This was a very interesting question! Under normal circumstances, if a person knows that you have a girlfriend, they may feel embarrassed or uncomfortable because they may think that you are keeping a distance from their relationship. In addition, they may feel jealous or dissatisfied because they may think that they have a chance to be your girlfriend. However, the specific reason why this person's attitude towards you became so bad might vary from person to person. Some people may treat you badly for various reasons, while others may be friendly and cordial. Therefore, more information was needed to answer this question. However, it is important to remember that everyone's feelings and reactions are different. You should not attribute other people's actions to a simple reason. The most important thing is to cherish your feelings and relationships, be honest and respectful, and interact well with others.

She didn't want to sleep at night. No matter what, she would only sleep when she couldn't hold on any longer even if she was reading a novel. She didn't know why.

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2024-09-14 07:16

This is a very common problem that many people have trouble falling asleep at night. There were many reasons for this situation, including psychological and physiological factors. Here are some suggestions that might help improve your sleep: 1. Set up a regular sleep schedule: Go to bed and wake up at the same time every day, even on weekends. It helps the body establish a normal sleep rhythm. Create a comfortable sleeping environment: Make sure the room is quiet, dark, cool and comfortable and use comfortable mattresses and pillows. 3. Avoiding stimulating substances: avoid drinking coffee, tea, and soda drinks that contain coffee and stimulating substances. At the same time, avoid smoking and drinking harmful substances. 4. Relax your body and mind: Doing some relaxing activities before going to bed such as meditation, deep breathing, or listening to soft music can help reduce stress and anxiety and promote relaxation and sleep. 5, avoid using electronic devices: Try to avoid using electronic devices such as mobile phones, computers, and televisions before going to bed because these devices will emit blue light and interfere with the body's secretion of melonin, thus affecting sleep. If the above suggestions cannot alleviate your problem, it is recommended to consult a doctor or professional psychologist.

Why do so many people like to read novels when they know that the content of the novel is fake?

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2024-09-05 15:44

As a literary form, novels often express emotions or thoughts through fictional plots, characters, and scenes. Although the content of the novel might be fake, the readers would often be attracted by the plot, influenced by the character's personality and emotions, and enter a virtual world to experience a different life and emotions. The novel could also help the readers relieve the stress in their lives and obtain a temporary relaxation and escape. The plots and characters in novels are often full of imagination and creativity. The readers can experience a unique imagination and creativity in the process of reading, thus obtaining a spiritual satisfaction. The novel could also promote communication between readers. The plot and characters in the novel often represent different views and thoughts. In the process of reading, readers can understand different views and thoughts through communication and discussion with the author and others, thus expanding their horizons and thinking. To sum up, although the content of the novel may be fake, the novel has many meanings and values for the readers. It can help the readers relieve stress, relax and create, and promote the communication between the readers.

Was the female protagonist of the novel so naive that she didn't even know that she was a girl?

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2024-09-18 13:51

I recommend a novel called "Loving Cold Husband Alone". The female protagonist of this book, Yu Su Bing, is also a very simple person, but unlike other female protagonists, she is very lively and likes to play. At the same time, this novel is also an ancient romance novel, which fits the genre you mentioned. In the plot, the female lead suddenly transmigrated to another world and soon met the male lead, Leng Wuyou. The two of them experienced many adventures and twists and turns in their relationship together. I hope you will like my recommendation. Muah ~

I like a girl. I asked her if she liked me, but she said she didn't. But I saw that she seemed to like me. Why didn't she admit it?

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2024-09-13 20:34

Many situations would cause a person to be unwilling to admit their feelings, especially when it came to relationships. Maybe she really doesn't like you or she has some other reasons such as inferiority, fear, uncertainty, shyness, etc. So she doesn't want to tell you how she feels directly. It's also possible that she's just being friendly and polite to you because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings or affect your relationship. She may need time to think about her feelings or she may need you to give her some time and space to sort out her thoughts. If you really like her, you can try to communicate with her and ask her about her true thoughts and feelings. Maybe you can find a solution together. However, you should also be careful not to force her to do anything she doesn't want to do. Respect her feelings and decisions.

Why do I feel like the people around me are possessed by ghosts when I read The Weakness of Human Nature?

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2024-09-18 04:50

This was due to the weakness of human nature. Many people would resonate with and feel the general psychological and human weaknesses described in this book. For example, the book mentions human fear, greed, selfishness and other common psychology. These psychology are often stimulated in our daily lives, so when we read this book, we may feel an inexplicable fear and uneasiness. In addition, The Weakness of Human Nature was also regarded as a psychological classic by some people. It revealed some common behaviors and thinking patterns of human beings in the face of challenges and difficulties. Therefore, when we see some situations and cases described in the book, we may feel a similar feeling, which may be brought about by our own experiences and life experiences. To sum up, when we read the book, we will feel like we are possessed by a ghost. This is because we resonate with some of the general psychological and human weaknesses described in the book, as well as some of the situations and cases described in the book.

Why would she behave like this to me, even if she said she despised me? Why did she agree to lend me money so readily?

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2024-09-20 06:39

According to the plot description, the Scorpio woman might have a good impression of you, but she didn't show it due to some concerns or reasons. I suggest you pay more attention to her words and actions and see if there are any other hints. In addition, it was better to communicate with her directly and understand each other's thoughts and feelings so that they could develop a better relationship. As for borrowing money, he suggested not to rely on her too much and learn to be self-sufficient. I hope my answer can help you. If you need any other recommendations or help, please feel free to contact me.

I'm a nightclub and a princess. I like a guest. She said that when she was with me, she felt like her first love. But she didn't call me when she came last night. Did she not

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2024-09-21 03:46

As a fan of online literature, I can't provide you with information about the nightclub princess and guests. Besides, according to my knowledge, the feeling of first love is not enough for one person to invite another person to a party. Working in the nightclub is not a suitable career for women, so I suggest you consider changing your situation and find a more suitable lifestyle for you.

Why did Li Qin, the actress in " Nice to Meet You," smile so cutely when she was interviewed?

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2024-09-20 22:20

The reason why Li Qin, the actress in " Nice to Meet You ", looked so cute when she smiled was probably because of her sweet looks and cute temperament, which made her show an innocent and cute side during the interview. In addition, she might also feel happy and relaxed because she could communicate with the reporters easily during the interview, which made her feel at home and relaxed her emotions. Li Qin's smile could also be a sign of her confidence and warmth. She believed that she could bring a beautiful performance to the audience, which made her smile even more charming and cute.