Can you recommend some novels where the main character grows up in adversity, doesn't fantasize about being invincible, doesn't get scolded, and keeps tempering himself?

The main character should be a male, not sci-fi, romance, or martial arts. It would be best if it was Xianxia or fantasy. The emotional description was more detailed. It was best if his family and lover were all dead, misunderstood by the world, despised by the world, and bad things happened one after another. It would be even better if there were plots of deception and betrayal, and plots of being scolded to the top before falling down ruthlessly. There was also a first-person story, so he didn't want to look at it.
Let me first talk about some works
The dust of history, the blasphemy of the demon hunter's hands, the immortal journey of the underworld, the fate of the world, all are still okay. Recently, I read a book called the dark blue badge, which is also not bad. It's just that I'm tired of writing later. The saint can also be a bit like the Count of Mount Cristo, but I don't like it very much.
It's not bad to ignore the plot of the fake Naruto
And most importantly, don't be like the Defiant Immortal, who beat Senior Brother down as soon as he got on stage. Also, if there are some modern measurement units and words in his works, and if there are obvious eastern words in the Western language, wash up and sleep first...
There are also good works such as those lost continents, Wukong's legend, and the silent sky, such as the "Zichuan Search for Gods" and other "good works", don't be outdated
There's also something like the loneliness of a master. Don't say it anymore. I can't stand it anymore.
Finally, there's also the pure western me who also likes the song of ice and fire. It's not bad
Dark Elves, Lord of the Rings, Wheel of Time, forget it. I don't like this kind of novel where good and evil are clearly distinguished. The hero fights the demon king.
I don't know if you've played the MDG game, Dream Simulation 2, but the plot inside is my favorite.
There are also novels like Coiling Dragon and Battle Destruction that are popular at the beginning. I don't need to lift my hand. I can't read books that primary school and junior high school students read anymore. However, I don't blame these authors. They also support their families at Hukou. It's not easy to write their own books against their conscience.
I know the requirements are high, but I know there will be strong people
I forgot that I didn't like the ones written by the Magic Apprentice, the Magic Thief, and the others, but at least I didn't hate them.
Don't recommend Cang Yue's works. I don't like this kind of writing style.
There's also a book called Super Skeleton Soldier, which is recommended by everyone. The name is a little bit low, but the first part is okay. I haven't finished reading the rest yet.
I'll add that everyone can finish reading my question first. Although it's a little long, it's also a recommendation post. You won't lose out.
There is also the song of evil wind mentioned on the 4th floor, breaking the sky, the Coiling Dragon, the stars, turning into the infinite demonic tomb. I have seen it all, although I haven't finished watching it, it's not good, especially the Coiling Dragon's post-13 explosive style, which makes people disgusted.
On the 5th floor, I thought for a while and could only say that the golden finger should be more reasonable, just like those countless coincidences in the dust, like Han and Wang, who picked up a treasure on the road and met an immortal master. In the end, they didn't want it
If you can, please don't recommend Qidian, you must recommend Qidian, the recommendation points are buried, the rankings are low, like saints,

Answer 1

😋I recommend the following novel to you:
[Martial Refined Peak]: tells the story of High Heaven Pavilion trial disciple Yang Kai growing up in adversity and constantly tempering his martial dao.
"Cultivation from Zero of Muye": The main character does not have a cheat, a system, or any other cheats. He can only become stronger bit by bit and eventually dominate the Naruto world.
<<Perfect-Ranked Battle Emperor>> tells the story of Pang Hao growing up in suffering and humiliation, and finally standing proudly between heaven and earth, looking down on all the enemies in the world.
"100 Ways to Become an Immortal": The main character is a young man without spiritual roots. He cultivates and trains himself by constantly purchasing all kinds of waste products, and finally becomes a true immortal.
I hope you like this fairy's recommendation. Muah ~😗