Which ancient time-travel novel have you read? Can you introduce the title?

The female lead had a cat tail and a scar on her face. There was also an elder sister. The treatment they received at home was very different.
In the middle of the story, there was a scene on the edge of a cliff. The male lead held the female lead in one hand and the supporting actress, who was very important to the second male lead (in terms of career), in the other hand. After weighing the pros and cons, he gave up on the female lead.
In the first half, the female protagonist had been disguised as a man. The more interesting plot was that the female protagonist blew smoke into the male protagonist's room. The male protagonist calmly pressed the pipe with his finger. The female protagonist continued to blow, and the male protagonist continued to press. Then, the female protagonist thought that she had charmed the male protagonist, but after entering the male protagonist's room, she said,"Damn, I forgot to take the antidote."
After that, there was also the scene of entering the desert. The female protagonist was well-equipped because she had transmigrated. The male protagonist and his subordinates did not know anything (but their martial arts were very high). Therefore, when they encountered danger in the desert, they almost always escaped with the help of the female protagonist (at that time, the female protagonist still wanted to get rid of the male protagonist, so there was no lack of bullying from the male protagonist).
In the second half of the article, the male protagonist found out that the female protagonist was a woman, and then the male and female protagonists got together after a series of love and murder. Of course, the male protagonist did not intend to let the female protagonist leave his side when she disguised as a man. To put it in a very sour way, the female lead was a ray of sunshine in the male lead's life. The male protagonist's personality was overbearing and arrogant, but he was very cold. This was related to his childhood experiences. Other than the female lead, everything else was bullshit.
Dear omnipotent readers, if you know the title, please tell me. I really want to read this novel again! Thank you!

Answer 1

I recommend a novel to you. The title is "Great Aunt Is the Golden Lotus". It's also an ancient romance novel. It tells the story of a girl who transmigrated into the Golden Lotus Pan. I hope you like this fairy's recommendation. Muah ~😗