Everyone's values and sexual values were different. This difference was very normal. Some people may be more open and accept indecency while others may be more conservative and not accept indecency. However, this did not mean that the male protagonist could accept it if he was not a virgin and the female protagonist could not accept it. We should respect everyone's sexual choices and experiences and not discriminate against them. Everyone had their own stories and experiences, and these experiences would affect their sexual attitudes and values. You can try to understand and accept different perspectives and find novels and stories that suit you. In the process of reading, you can consider the author's point of view and values, and make judgments and choices based on your own values. At the same time, he could also look for other types of novels such as suspense, science fiction, history, etc. to enrich his reading experience.