Love in real life is not necessarily as perfect as in novels because novels are a fictional art form that usually creates a romantic atmosphere and plot through exaggeration and imagination. Although the characters in novels are usually created by the author's imagination, in real life, everyone is unique. They have different personalities, values, and experiences. These factors will affect the performance of love. In addition, the concept of love in novels was often different from the concept of marriage in real society. Love in novels is usually more romantic and idealistic, while marriage in real life requires more responsibilities and practical considerations. Therefore, the plot in the novel where a woman loves a man more than herself and thinks about the man first may not be applicable to marriage in real life. Although love in real life may not be as perfect as in novels, we can create a true and beautiful love by cherishing and respecting each other's personalities, values, and experiences.