After getting married, she realized that her husband was not motivated and was still relying on his parents. How could she change him?

After getting married, she found that her husband was not motivated and still relied on his parents. If she wanted to change him, she could consider the following methods: 1 Communication: Communicate with your husband honestly to understand his thoughts and feelings. Let him understand that you are dissatisfied and disappointed with him for not being motivated and relying on his parents. In the process of communication, you need to pay attention to avoid accusations and attacks, but to help him find ways to change based on understanding and respect. 2. Incentives: You can encourage your husband to try new things, such as encouraging him to challenge himself to participate in some interest groups or classes, or provide some support and resources to help him realize his dreams. 3. Set goals: Help your husband set specific goals and develop plans to achieve these goals. Let him know what he wants to achieve and then help him achieve these goals together. 4. Cultivate common interests: Try to find something that your husband is interested in and participate in it together. Let him feel the common interests and values between you and stimulate his motivation and motivation. Give support and encouragement: When your husband encounters difficulties or setbacks, you should give him support and encouragement so that he can feel your support and trust to enhance his self-confidence and motivation. Changing a person required time and patience. It required a comprehensive consideration of the husband's personality, interests, values, and other factors to find a suitable method for him. At the same time, she also had to respect her husband's choices and decisions and avoid forcing or criticizing his actions.